{"id":3213,"date":"2019-09-14T09:00:27","date_gmt":"2019-09-14T09:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/?p=3213"},"modified":"2020-02-11T18:58:00","modified_gmt":"2020-02-11T18:58:00","slug":"story-the-silent-hand","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/2019\/09\/14\/3213\/","title":{"rendered":"The Silent Hand"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fountain-3412242_1920-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-3389\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fountain-3412242_1920-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fountain-3412242_1920-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fountain-3412242_1920-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fountain-3412242_1920-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.stefanhammel.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/fountain-3412242_1920.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><em>As a story or a practical exercise, the story \u201cThe Silent Hand\u201d represents an intervention for reducing skin moisture, or in other words for regulating the formation and absorption of oil and perspiration, and reducing the production of dandruff. During therapeutic work with bulimia and emetophobia (fear of vomiting and vomit) the story can be used to teach clients that they have involuntary control over their excretions, even their sweat. For patients suffering from colds (including blocked-up ears), the story can be used metonymically (as an example of an adjacent phenomenon), since it is associatively linked with the idea of reducing the swelling of the mucous membranes and the production of secretions. Finally, the story can be used to teach clients how to influence the production of endogenous substances through suggestion, for example a change in the quantity of tears secreted in the case of patients suffering from dry eyes. The story also illustrates how events experienced by the therapist can be turned into a third-person narrative \u2013 which is automatically more detached than a first-person narrative \u2013 using the phrase \u201cmy friend Peter\u201d (the \u201cMy Friend John\u201d technique).<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My friend Peter belongs to an African drumming group led by a Congolese drummer. The leader was teaching a piece to the group which ends by getting quieter and quieter until the music stops entirely and the drummer\u2019s hand is lying motionless on the drum. The leader lifted his hand away from the drum without making a sound. The other drummers copied him, but each of them made an audible squelch because of the sweat and oil on the skin of their hands. They tried repeatedly to lift their hands soundlessly, but time and time again the leader lifted his hands in complete silence while audible squelches could be heard from the others. In his thoughts, Peter said to his hand, \u201cDear hand, please absorb all the oil and sweat which is currently on your surface.\u201d Seconds later, he lifted his hand in absolute silence. \u201cHow on earth did you manage that?\u201d the others asked hm. Within a matter of seconds, they too could regulate the sweat and grease on their own hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>As a story or a practical exercise, the story \u201cThe Silent Hand\u201d represents an intervention for reducing skin moisture, or in other words for regulating the formation and absorption of oil and perspiration, and reducing the production of dandruff. 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